Sex is hard enough to talk about in our society without having to actively unlearn decades worth of hokey religions...
Marriage After Faith
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Gender Purity
From seatbelts to power chords there’s an underlying assumption in our society that male goes into female JUST LIKE...
Dating After Deconstruction
The promise of eternal monogamy I made as a 21 year old christian virgin was one I feel was made under duress and...
State Of Disunion
Just over a year after the January 6th insurrection and the chilling effect of that horrendous day can barely be felt....
Great Sexpectations
With great sex cums great responsibility or… honestly that movie had too many characters. Instead, like poor Pip,...
Questioning The Sacred History Of Sexuality
I mean, I get it. If there wasn’t something kind of magical about looking deeply into the eyes of someone you love or...
Deconstructing Purity Culture
If there is one through line between Dr. Darrel Ray’s inception of the Secular Sexuality podcast and whatever...
Musical Manipulation
A sincere moment in the deconstruction of my faith came at the end of high school when a clip of the film ‘Jesus Camp’...
Porn, Huh?
A decade or so ago I found myself surrounded by other college students listing off things that are sins, as adults...