Deconstructing Purity Culture

Aug 18, 2021 | Religious Trauma, Sex Positivity

If there is one through line between Dr. Darrel Ray’s inception of the Secular Sexuality podcast and whatever porn-star-interviewing home-made-kazooing shenanigans SecX has become, it’s the idea that we can unlearn the destructive myths of our sex-negative culture. In deconstructing purity culture we can better empower ourselves to make and share the love that we deserve. Catch my conversation with Emily Maynard below and be sure to check back afterwards for some footNOTES!

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