A Little-Adult Conversation About Love

May 7, 2021 | Relationships, Kink, Secular Sexuality

Sex is great and all but have you ever been wrapped up in a blankie like a burrito while watching cartoons and eating chicken nuggies? What about having your head scratched while you fixate on a squirrel through a window? If not be sure to watch this week’s episode of SecX where we work to get out of bed and into the headspace of puppys and littles through caregiver-little relationships. Vi and P*ck join me in unpacking these sometimes icky and always sticky relationship dynamics and answer your calls and questions. Catch the episode live on 5/13 at 7p CT and be sure to check back here afterwards for some footNOTES!

What is Littlespace? from LittleSpaceOnline

WHAT IS DDLG? from DDLG Playground

DDLG Rules: A Little List of Rules for Littles from Kinky:Events

DD/LG Contracts from My Little Princess

Age Play As a Consensual Way To Explore Sexual Dynamics by Sassafras Lowrey for InToMore

Ageplay Rules for Littles 101 plus some great example rules from AgePlay

The Psychology of Puppy Play: A Phenomenological Investigation by Darren Langdridge & Jamie Lawson from Archives of Sexual Behavior

Pet Play: Everything You Need to Know Published by Kristan X to Lascivity

TYPES OF PETPLAY Posted by Anna Bergeron to Lovegasm

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