We’re pretty pro porn and pro porn accessories at SecX and to say that we are pro trans goes without saying, so what’s...
Culturally Bound
Ever catch one of those videos of police sirens from all over the world and realize, ‘holy shit how do people in X...
Family Movie Time
Growing up with a 3 channel antenna (6 if you spin it just right!) in a 6 person home meant that TV was rarely a...
Questioning The Sacred History Of Sexuality
I mean, I get it. If there wasn’t something kind of magical about looking deeply into the eyes of someone you love or...
Talking To Your Kids About Secular Sexuality
I get it- talking about kids and sex in the same YouTube video is a really great way to alert the algorithm and end up...
Deconstructing Purity Culture
If there is one through line between Dr. Darrel Ray’s inception of the Secular Sexuality podcast and whatever...
Homophobia In The Black Community
No one has a patent on homophobia and even the oppressed can fall victim to fear mongering and ignorance. It’s a...
Unpacking Your Kinks
Maybe every 10th consultation I receive as a therapist is some version of the question- “is it okay that I’m into x?”...
HIV In 2021
No doubt you’ve used the word ‘pandemic’ more then you ever cared to recently and, while we’re just beginning to see...