One of our very first ever calls on Secular Sexuality involved a newly opened ‘sex doll brothel’ and a therapist...
Meet Doll Master Ricky
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Sex Positivity Resources
Mastering Masturbation
In Spain, the best upper sets do it. Lithuanians and Letts do it. The Dutch in old Amsterdam do it, not to mention the...
Gender/Role Play
One of the best ways to understand a complex system is to fuck with it, and see what happens. And a little...
Bringing The Heart Into The Present
I know mindfulness can be one of those words that gets thrown around so much it can feel like it hardly means...
“All The Time/Hardly Ever” AKA “Once, Maybe Twice A Week”
Quick magic trick for you. Imagine a bad sitcom, picture the 4th wall lacking set, hear the laugh track, close your...
Sexual Intelligence
This week I was honored to speak in front of the Humanist Society of Greater Phoenix about sexual intelligence and the...
Wet An’ Hard Or Hardly Wet?
Arousal is such a sticky, um, concept, it’s no wonder our society finds it so hard and long to describe. What’s more,...
Miss O Kissed By Latex
Introduce a little claustrophilia into your life this week with one of SecX’s all time favs- Miss O Kissed. Miss O...
The Performers With Chelsea Poe
Hustlers? Tangerine? The Ripper? The media has a lot to say about sex work but rarely do we get to hear from sex...