Depending on where you look, about a quarter of us are neurodiverse. This can mean dramatically different experiences...
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Secular Sexuality Resources
State Of Disunion
Just over a year after the January 6th insurrection and the chilling effect of that horrendous day can barely be felt....
“All The Time/Hardly Ever” AKA “Once, Maybe Twice A Week”
Quick magic trick for you. Imagine a bad sitcom, picture the 4th wall lacking set, hear the laugh track, close your...
Sexual Intelligence
This week I was honored to speak in front of the Humanist Society of Greater Phoenix about sexual intelligence and the...
The Medical Model Of Transgender Bodies
Someone once told me that they could never understand how other trans folx were proud of their gender identity when...
Wet An’ Hard Or Hardly Wet?
Arousal is such a sticky, um, concept, it’s no wonder our society finds it so hard and long to describe. What’s more,...
Miss O Kissed By Latex
Introduce a little claustrophilia into your life this week with one of SecX’s all time favs- Miss O Kissed. Miss O...
Great Sexpectations
With great sex cums great responsibility or… honestly that movie had too many characters. Instead, like poor Pip,...
The Performers With Chelsea Poe
Hustlers? Tangerine? The Ripper? The media has a lot to say about sex work but rarely do we get to hear from sex...