Questioning The Sacred History Of Sexuality

Sep 15, 2021 | Sex Positivity, Religious Trauma, Secular Sexuality

I mean, I get it. If there wasn’t something kind of magical about looking deeply into the eyes of someone you love or hearing them shout “oh GOD” at just the right moment, none of us would bother talking about love and sex and god for an hour and a half every week. For literally thousands of years people have insisted that there’s something not just profound, not just spiritual or even transcendent but actually divine about the love we make and share. Melissa Hargrave returns to the show to talk to me about the history of these mystical practices and to join a skeptical conversation about the wonder and power of love. Catch the episode below and be sure to check back afterwards for some footNOTES!

Spiritual, Sexual—and Religious? by Mark Jordan for Harvard Divinity Bulletin

Confessions of an Atheist Witch by Vi La Bianca for Medium

A Tantra Guide for the Skeptics by Carlos Milan for Beducated

Psychologists Are Learning What Religion Has Known for Years by David Desteno for Wired

Exploring Our Weird Relationship With Magic by Oona O’Brien for Cracked

 
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