How To Kink

Aug 13, 2020 | Kink, Secular Sexuality, Sex Positivity

A week ago the resident Poly Viking Power Bottom of Secular Sexuality walked us through some weird and wild adjectives and the value of finding your kink identity. But now wtf do you do with it? SecX’s Patron Saint of All things Sexual Saint Eve is here to help us explore the restricted section of the library and learn how to research and safely explore an exciting new kink or scary new desire. This week we’re sexy, we’re kinky and all a little geeky as we crack open some ancient wisdom and explore the dark corners of the modern world. Catch the episode below and be sure to check back here for some footNOTES.

Find Saint Eve on the website YouTube warned us about sharing- https://saint_eve.cammodels.com/ or on twitter as @TransSaintEve

Alas our favorite kink 101 classes from Forbidden Fruit are currently on hold. Try the Erika Lust Sex Ed Store in the meantime.

While this isn’t exactly a Part II you may want to check in on some of the resources from last week.

Consider some intro level exploration using Clair Litton-Cohn’s Refinery29 article 5 Common Kinks–& What To Know Before You Try.

Perhaps share your sexual journey using the Fantasy App.

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