Arousal is such a sticky, um, concept, it’s no wonder our society finds it so hard and long to describe. What’s more,...
Wet An’ Hard Or Hardly Wet?
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Relationships Resources
Polygamy Vs Polyamory
When I was on dating apps as a poly man nothing used to get under my skin more then the constant conflation of...
On Compersion
The Jealousy Workbook: Exercises and Insights for Managing Open Relationships Compersion: A Polyamorous Principle That...
Identity Politics And Unused Adjectives
Is there anything more privileged then setting yourself up as the group that gets to decide what does and does not...
A Little-Adult Conversation About Love
Sex is great and all but have you ever been wrapped up in a blankie like a burrito while watching cartoons and eating...
Making Soulmates
Of all the silly ideas our culture and religious past may have left vestigial in our minds soul mates should be one of...
Dating (As) An Atheist Activist
As a scorpio by birth, polyamorist by nature, therapist by training and Aggie by choice I’m well accustomed to the...
Understanding Ageplay
Baby. Daddy. Mama. We use a lot of these words when we refer to our partner but we rarely stop to ask why. What if...
Communication IS LIKE Playing Pool
Good news everyone! I, your humble gender and sexuality therapist, have found the solution to all of your couple’s...